I thought id write a quick post about relationship status’s, I was talking to a friend of mine the other day. someone iv’e not really seen or spoken to since leaving school and she was going on about being single and how things aren’t so good now that she isn’t in a relationship, I’ve never really been one to follow my own advice but what I passed on was seen as a very valuable piece of advice. what i said to my friend was that although being single can sometimes be depressing or devaluing, you should always be in love with your self before considering others. One of the key benefits to being single is that you have a free rein, I’m not just on about a “one night stand” or something along those lines. BUT in some relationships your partners can get possessive over you, and sometimes you wont even notice until you try and do something out of you or your partners comfort zone or in the worse case scenario’s once you are out of the relationship altogether. Based on past experience I was in an 8 month Relationship which ended on neutral terms as this was the best way forward, but whilst i was in that relationship one of the things i found myself doing towards the end of it was actually doing things behind my partners back and telling her later, As it wasn’t worth the hassle or the argument that may or may not have followed. I’m on about activities that make me who i am E.G Kayaking, Hillwalking, Mountain Climbing and other various outdoor activities. So in conclusion Single life although it can get lonely if your someone like me you just don’t see the big deal in having a relationship. What do you think? leave your comments below